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August 22nd, 2011


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08:33 am
There is truly something poisonous in the one-upmanship of our society.

Some examples:

lishd had an amazing portrait of a hawk carved into her side over the course of five hours.
A friend of mine responded by saying that some of her friends get brands done.

I mentioned on facebook that I was in Titusville (the nearest town to Kennedy Space Center) for the final space shuttle launch.
A friend of mine responded with "Wow -- why are you hanging out in Hicktown?"
Another friend responded with "Why did you go out for it? There's only a 30% chance of it launching."

(I was able to have the last laugh in this case -- the probability was downgraded farther and the launch proceeded -- but if you've been reading my journal, you knew that.)

Whenever my video game console collection is discussed, inevitably someone puts forth the question: "Oh yeah? Do you have console X?" where X is a meaningless console like a Dendy or a Game & Watch watch. This usually leads to the rather thrilling continuing thread of conversation of "Oh."

On the occasions where I do happen to have X, they continue their inquisition until one is named that I don't have without any apparent recognition that their attempt at a trump is invalid. I once endured someone asking this question eight times before they gave up and they did not give me opportunity to elucidate at any point. Their response was "Huh."

The art of conversation is not a matter of flapping your lips at one another for an extended period of time. It is about listening, understanding, and responding thoughtfully. In our age of instant gratification, it is most unfortunate that people see a period of time for reflection in the midst of an argument or conversation as an imperfection.

Groucho Marx was quoted as saying "Years ago, I tried to top everybody, but I don't anymore. I realized it was killing conversation. When you're always trying for a topper you aren't really listening. It ruins communication."

(It seems to me that at some point, I have likely been a hypocrite with respect to this statement, nevertheless I hold that it does not diminish the truth of my sentiment.)

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From:testing4l
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:01 pm (UTC)
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This post will probably answer your questions for her.

Also, it contains all the pictures of her boyfriend's ass that anyone could ever want.
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From:londo
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
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Mmm, I don't know. I still don't know how hairy said butt is under all that pant.
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From:testing4l
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:09 pm (UTC)
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From:lishd
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:11 pm (UTC)
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i was timing how long it would take you to delete that. XD
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From:testing4l
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:14 pm (UTC)
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It would've been faster if I hadn't been in the middle of typing something else.

I should write a bot to delete pictures of Joe from my LJ for the future.
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From:lishd
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:16 pm (UTC)
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now now, not ALL pictures of him are anti-phil.
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From:testing4l
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:19 pm (UTC)
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As I sit here -- scarred from my ordeal -- I'm not sure I've seen a picture of him that I'd want to see again....

Wait! Wait! Yes, I can! But I believe he's explicitly asked you not to share that one.

Edited at 2011-08-22 07:19 pm (UTC)
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From:lishd
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:23 pm (UTC)
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dude you're sick

SICK
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From:testing4l
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:27 pm (UTC)
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Hey, you're the one who took it, mid-objection.

Someday, I should really get him a copy of that book.
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From:londo
Date:August 22nd, 2011 07:40 pm (UTC)
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Does this involve him passed out with a face Sharpie'd on to his cock and balls?

Because I do admire someone who likes to switch it up now and then.
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From:lishd
Date:August 22nd, 2011 08:57 pm (UTC)
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oh i thought you meant the pic of him as a 10yo boy scout XD

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