If I didn't uphold my place in the universe, would the universe collapse upon itself like a tunnel with insufficient supports?
My existence allows all other existences. If I disappeared, you would cease to exist.
You'll never see me. If you tried to find me, then you'd cease to exist as well. Like a patient trying to give himself open heart surgery.
You can see that I exist though and there's little quiet ways we can still talk. Like men in jail cells tapping on a common heating pipe. We're never allowed out but we will love and lose together in spite of that.
Of course, the same is probably true for you.
So here's the deal -- if you continue to exist, then I'll continue to exist which will allow you to continue to exist.
United in our substantial presence, we exist and our name is "Always-Been". Divided, we'll never have been at all and our name was "Never-Was".