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January 26th, 2008


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08:08 pm
I'm going to be very busy tomorrow -- I have a lot of packing and running around to do.

relsqui: We'll make arrangements for your stuff some other day. I'm not going to have time tomorrow.

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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 04:36 am (UTC)
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addendum: FOUND TIME, YOUR SHIT'S ON THE LAWN. PICK UP WHENEVER'S CONVENIENT
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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 04:45 am (UTC)
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naw, that's the same thing i'd say in any situation of "come get your crap"; fizz knows i have nothing against her.
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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 04:54 am (UTC)
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everyone knows it never rains in southern california.
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From:gemlikeflame
Date:January 27th, 2008 05:04 am (UTC)
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We're in NorCal, though. Been raining all week.
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From:outlaw
Date:January 27th, 2008 05:26 am (UTC)
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Hey, it's been raining all week down in SoCal too! >:(
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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 06:18 am (UTC)
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yeah, i know. i lived there. i quoted a lyric for phil.
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From:relsqui
Date:January 27th, 2008 08:09 pm (UTC)
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Actually I was not sure of that lately, but good to know.
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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 09:14 pm (UTC)
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i offered to talk any time you want & have said nothing otherwise to you - you know i'm not a behind-the-back sort, so you should assume positivity.

here's the scoop: if what phil's lj has reported is all true, then i think you handled yourself poorly & in a manner unnecessarily hurtful to my friend phil; however, the bottom line is that you didn't do these things to ME, & if phil himself can still be kind to you, which he is, then i certainly have no reason to hold your actions against you beyond what phil would do. you're still fairly young, & i've definitely had friends fuck up & fuck each other over worse than this, but you do have to do as your heart dictates in matters of love, & if leaving phil was right for you, then it was what had to be done to the relationship.

in short: personally, i have no problem with you. secondhand, i have a negated problem since phil's okay with you. i am closer to phil, but you & i ARE friends.

any questions?
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From:relsqui
Date:January 27th, 2008 09:28 pm (UTC)
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That was based mostly on a comment along the lines of "man I didn't realize that, that's lame" in response to some post of his. As I said, good to know--and while I don't think Phil has lied outright I do think he's been misleading. I am slowly working on some writing about my side of this.

No further questions! Thank you.
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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 09:53 pm (UTC)
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definitely interested in reading your side. the fact that you hadn't posted much gives an impression that what phil says is all correct, however mistaken that impression may be. you're of course not required to say shit on lj; though, it's a good idea to let mutual friends in on your side of things.

& the bit that i said is lame IS lame. i stand behind that, & i'll say the same thing to you. it's really weak to break up by someone you profess to love with a note & then go fuck someone else four hours later or whatever. provided, of course, that all of that did happen as phil reported. i was only able to skim most of the chat logs or i'd give myself a headache.

anyhow, i look forward to your post.
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From:lishd
Date:January 27th, 2008 10:09 pm (UTC)
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there are lots of things it's "better than" - that doesn't make it an acceptable way to handle things, especially at the 5yr point.
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From:testing4l
Date:January 27th, 2008 10:56 pm (UTC)
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it's really weak to break up by someone you profess to love with a note

Your wording's a little tortured and I think you know this, but I want to be sure that you're clear on this point. relsqui broke up with me in person (while sitting on the other side of the couch). The note was something she wrote and left on my pillow while she was on her way out the door.

I did post a lot of logs -- and they're probably boring as fuck -- but they're there to demonstrate why I think things are the way they are.
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From:lishd
Date:January 28th, 2008 12:19 am (UTC)
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oh good, i'm glad the note wasn't the first word on finality.

my wording is tortured to match the situation. :)
From:fusilliban
Date:January 27th, 2008 11:16 pm (UTC)
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For what it's worth, I agree with most of what lishd has said here.

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